Dating can be a challenge regardless but, when you decide to make some changes to better your life it seems that adding layers to that self-

Reach out to my Ex? What in the date better is going on here? An exercise I did from the book The Game of Desire by Shan Boodram. Throughout my dating career I have been able to discover a few things. I’ve learned my likes and dislikes, my patterns good, bad and wtfs and most importantly being able to love myself more and more through it all. What I did not know or care to know was what my exes thought about me after I was long gone and out of their lives. That is until I

Starting Over After Divorce “DIVORCE…So I guess that’s it, we’re done and it’s nothing left to say.” Yes those were the words that finalized the decision to end my marriage. In my head it was honest; it was real and in a sense almost poetic. The reality was there was a shit load of things to say. I had a ton of questions to help me analyze the psyche of the person who broke my heart. The psychologist in me wanted to analyze the childhood trauma that would lead this person